Free printable from a child clinical psychologist
"I" Statements Worksheet: help your child say how they feel and what they need, with confidence
Speaking up is hard when you're worried about upsetting someone or starting a row. This worksheet teaches a simple four-step way to say how you feel and ask for what you need. It's a skill that builds confidence and stronger relationships, for older children, teenagers and parents too.
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What's inside
- A clear explanation of what an "I" statement is, with before-and-after examples
- The four-step structure: observation, feelings, needs and request
- A practice table for building your own "I" statements, plus five top tips
From me
I'm Dr Lucy Russell, a child clinical psychologist with over 20 years of clinical experience. I've used "I" statements with young people and families in clinic for years.
"Lucy took great care to listen to us carefully, identify the issues and help us understand our son's behaviour."Parent at Lucy's Clinic, Everlief Child Psychology
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