Free printable from a child clinical psychologist

Traffic Lights Behaviour Management Worksheets: decide which behaviours to address, let go and encourage

When every behaviour feels like a battle, it's hard to know where to start. This simple red, amber and green system helps you sort out what matters most, so you can put your energy where it will make the biggest difference and respond consistently.

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A family example from the free Traffic Lights Behaviour Management Worksheet Pack from They Are The Future

What's inside

  • A clear explanation of the traffic lights technique: red for behaviours you'll always address, amber for those you choose to let go, and green for those you want to see more of
  • Two family examples (the Stantons and the Watsons) showing how other parents have filled it in
  • A blank template to complete with your own family
Dr Lucy Russell, child clinical psychologist

From me

I'm Dr Lucy Russell, a child clinical psychologist with over 20 years of clinical experience. I've used the traffic lights technique with families in clinic for years.

"Lucy took great care to listen to us carefully, identify the issues and help us understand our son's behaviour."Parent at Lucy's Clinic, Everlief Child Psychology

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