Free printable from a child clinical psychologist

Friendship Skills Checklist: see which social skills your child has, and which one to help them with first

A free printable checklist for ages 3 to 17. If friendships are tricky for your child, it helps you understand why, so you know where a little support will make the most difference.

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Friendship Skills Checklist by They Are The Future

What's inside

  • Three pages, one each for ages 3 to 6, 7 to 11 and 12 to 17
  • Three boxes for each skill: “Can do confidently”, “Can’t do yet” and “Priority to work on”
  • Skills from sharing and taking turns through to handling peer pressure and keeping healthy boundaries
Dr Lucy Russell, child clinical psychologist

From me

I'm Dr Lucy Russell, a child clinical psychologist with over 20 years of clinical experience. Friendship skills are learned, and every child picks them up at their own pace. I suggest working on one skill at a time, and keeping it fun.

"Lucy took great care to listen to us carefully, identify the issues and help us understand our son's behaviour."Parent at Lucy's Clinic, Everlief Child Psychology

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