Your child's self-esteem style is
THE UNICORN!
So what does this mean for them and how can you support them? Read on!...
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What makes a Unicorn Special?
Congratulations! Unicorns are rare. They are confident in themselves and are not swayed by popular opinion. If they think something is right, they stick to it... regardless of what anyone else thinks.
Here's a summary of key unicorn features:

Optimism
They expect good things and feel hopeful about the future.

Resilience
They can bounce back from challenges.

Confidence
They have an inner belief in themselves.
What to Watch Out For in Your Unicorn
Self-Importance
It's fantastic that your child has self-belief, optimism and confidence. But that doesn't necessarily make them humble. Make sure your child lifts others up as they go through their successful lives.
Conflict Management
Unicorns have an unerring belief in themselves and can confidently stand up for something they believe in. BUT sometimes this can cause conflict with others.
Conflict is not a bad thing. However, your child needs to know how to handle conflict successfully to get their desired outcome. The desired outcome might be:
1. Staying friends with someone even if they have different views.
2. Getting their point across in a respectful way.
Complacence
Your unicorn is a unicorn because you have done a fantastic job of nurturing them and teaching them what's important in life.
But sometimes unicorns stop being unicorns.
When unicorns experience particularly tough times, they can lose their special powers of self-belief and optimism. Adolescence can be challenging for so many reasons. Watch out for signs that your unicorn may be losing their sparkle, and act to prevent this (see top tips below).
Unicorn Top Tips
1. Help them maintain a balance between confidence and over-confidence. Encourage them to examine and adapt their own beliefs regularly, as well as listening and respecting the beliefs of others.
2. Model successfully managing conflict and working alongside others in your home. Your child may have fantastic values and beliefs, and they may have strong leadership qualities. But can they truly listen to others, work in partnership, and adapt in response to others?
3. Regularly review your child's lifestyle habits with them, and make adaptations where necessary. Staying resilient and positive is much easier if your body and brain are well looked after through plenty of sleep, a varied diet, social contact and regular exercise.
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